Activities, Community News, Events, Female Focus, Health and Wellbeing, Support Services

The Menopause Cafe is coming to the Hub

We promise to open all the windows and lay on plenty of tea!

The Menopause Cafe will be stopping off in Walderslade on Saturday, June 7th from 10am-12noon.

The Menopause Cafe is a national charity that creates spaces for conversations about menopause to normalise this transition stage.

A Menopause Cafe is aimed at breaking down the stigma around menopause and increasing awareness of the impact of the menopause on women and their family, friends and colleagues.

This is a free, in person event open to anyone living in the Medway towns and surrounding areas.

Booking advised https://bookwhen.com/menopausecafemedwaytowns

A menopause cafe is a discussion group open to everyone, whether experiencing it yourself or helping a loved one through it: no expert talks, topics are chosen by participants.

The menopause cafe for Medway towns is organised by Nicola Kidney, Jeanette Forder and Lisa Watson.

Join us for an informal gathering to talk about all things menopause, this is the place to share experiences , ask questions and connect with others going through similar journeys. Come sip on a tea or coffee and chat with us about this important stage of life.

We look forward to seeing you there!

Resources, Support Services

The true cost of using loan sharks

Becoming a victim of a loan shark can happen to anyone, anywhere, in any situation. But there is help on hand, in the form of the Illegal Money Lending Team – not the police – who can stop loan sharks from terrorising their victims.

Here’s just one story:

A father has told how he is looking forward to a happy Christmas this year, free from the grip of a loan shark for the first time in 15 years.

Anthony, 39, borrowed over £10,000 in small loans from someone he thought was a family friend and a legitimate lender over the years to help him through difficult and expensive times, like Christmas. 

But following an investigation by the England Illegal Money Lending Team, he was horrified to discover that the lender was not authorised and was in fact a loan shark who had been profiting from his family.

Anthony, a father of four, said: “I was absolutely fuming. I am so angry that he was effectively profiting from our misfortune. He had taken money off my kids to fund his own life.

“The interest was just horrific. I had to pay back £60 or £70 on top of every £100 I borrowed. Over the years I have borrowed over £10,000, so that’s a lot of profit he has made from me – thousands and thousands of pounds.”

Anthony said Christmas was often the biggest thing he needed to borrow money for and the loan shark knew that, turning up to offer money exactly when it was needed.

“The first loan was £500 and I paid that off, but there is always something that comes up, especially when you have got kids,” he said.

“Christmas was the biggest one, we had two or three loans, maybe even more over the Christmas period. You want your kids to have a good life and you want to be able to have a decent Christmas and make memories with them. If someone is there saying here is some money you can pay back a bit a month, it’s too easy not to do it.”

Anthony believed the lender was legitimate, but when he struggled to repay, he realised something was amiss when he was suddenly faced with threats and intimidation.

That included the lender turning up at his home when he was out and making inappropriate sexual comments to his wife and daughter.

“He really put the pressure on – turning up at my house when my wife was home alone and saying sleazy comments to her like suggesting there were other ways to pay. It got really tough,” he said.

But it was only when officers from the IMLT paid him a visit that he realised the truth.

Another borrower had reported the lender and Anthony was found to be one of a large number of people who had been targeted.

“Hindsight is a wonderful thing, maybe I should have noticed the signs when he just scribbled it down on a piece of paper, but it was just so easy at the time,” he said.

“It angers me because I have been made to feel like a fool. I have funded someone else’s life and to find out afterwards there were so many other people he was making money off – it just makes me so angry.”

The illegal lender has now been jailed following the IMLT’s intervention and Anthony and his family are looking forward to a Christmas without worrying about an unwelcome visit.

“It’s a vile thing to have hanging over your head – it’s like being stuck in a never-ending hellhole of recycling money,” he said.

“We have been without him for months now and I don’t miss it at all – things have come up but now we just do without if we can’t afford it. Money does make the world go round but it doesn’t bring you happiness. We’re a lot happier now we’re not borrowing from him anymore.

“If anyone is thinking about borrowing from a lender like this I would say just don’t do it. Speak to your family, find a legitimate source to borrow from and start saving for next year. If someone turns up on your doorstep offering you money and it seems too good to be true it will be – it will come back to haunt you.”

The Illegal Money Lending Team, also known as Stop Loan Sharks, investigates and prosecutes illegal lenders and offers support and advice to anyone who may be in debt to an illegal lender.

Tony Quigley, head of the IMLT, said: “Christmas is always a testing time when it comes to family finances, but there are safer ways to borrow money if that is needed.

“People should beware of apparently friendly faces appearing to do you a favour by offering loans. It may seem like a simple option, but things can soon turn nasty and you may end up trapped in a cycle of repaying huge amounts of interest and having to borrow again to pay that off.

“If you have been targeted in this way, get in touch with our specialist team in confidence for advice and support.

“We are so grateful to Anthony for sharing his story and we hope it helps anyone who is in the same situation come forward to contact us.”

There are an estimated 1.08 million people in debt to loan sharks in England, according to figures from the Centre for Social Justice.

Signs to look out for include being offered no paperwork, being asked to hand over bank cards or a passport until the debt is repaid, being charged huge amounts of interest and facing threats or intimidation when you can’t pay.

Since its launch in 2004, the IMLT has supported over 31,000 people and written off over £91 million worth of illegal debt, securing over 410 prosecutions for illegal money lending. Its Christmas campaign in 2023 is urging families to #ShopSmartNotShark and not to resort to illegal lenders if money is tight and consider safer options such as credit unions.

Anyone who has been affected by illegal money lending should call the Stop Loan Sharks 24/7 Helpline on 0300 555 2222 or access support online at www.stoploansharks.co.uk. Live Chat is available on the website from 9am to 5pm, Monday to Friday. 

Attending a workshop, The Net (via Manager Jaye) was happy to sign up to the local declaration against loan sharking.

A note about the Illegal Money Lending Teams

The Illegal Money Lending Teams in England, Scotland and Wales work alongside the Financial Conduct Authority (FCA) to investigate those operating within the consumer credit market without the appropriate authorisation.

The Illegal Money Lending Teams in England and Wales work in partnership with local Trading Standards Authorities in their related countries. They consist of specialist officers who investigate and prosecute illegal money lending and related activity and LIAISE officers who support victims and raise awareness of the dangers of borrowing from illegal money lenders.

Activities, charity, Community News, Funding, Support Services

We’re part of the Comic Relief Community!

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Our lovely volunteer, Sue, has been rewarded for all her hard work with regard to the Brainstormz! group – our project has received a £3,977 grant from the Comic Relief Community Fund (England), which secures it for the whole year!

Piloted in December, Sue has worked tirelessly to build the group, both physically in the hub (every Saturday from 1-4pm) and on Facebook. It’s open to anyone with a neurological condition (including but not limited to e.g. FND, fibromyalgia) who wants to drop in for a shoulder to lean on, an ear to listen or just for tea and biscuits.

Sue hopes to expand the offer of the group, with guest speakers and activities. If you’d like to be involved, drop us an email: community@waldersladehub.org.

The Comic Relief Community Fund (England) provides grants to grassroots organisations to develop their capacity or deliver a project in at least one of Comic Relief’s themes: Children Survive & Thrive; Fighting for Gender Justice; A Safe Place to Be; and Mental Health Matters. Find out more about the fund here.

Activities, Support Services

*New Activity* BRAINSTORMZ!

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Starting Saturday 7th December (1pm – 4pm) 2019; a new support group Brainstormz! is opening in The Net for persons just like you. There will be: 

  • Refreshments 
  • Crafting 
  • Facilities for younger persons 
  • Occasional Guest Speakers 
  • Arranged trips to seminars where relevant

BRAINSTORMZ! is led by volunteer, Sue Bulpin, and welcomes people with all neurological conditions from Functional Neurological Disorder to Fibromyalgia and more.

We aim to provide an empathetic forum for the exchange of good practice ideas, details of access to facilities both locally and further afield. A general information exchange provision will be available, where attendees can receive and provide information as they find the information useful. 

Each session will cost £2 per person {£1 for under 16s}. This is to cover the session fees, tea or coffee and biscuits. Those who bake are always welcome, especially if they bring cakes! 

For information, contact Sue on 01634 319633 at the Net or via email volunteer@waltcic.org.uk 

SUPPORTED BY FND ACTION UK
Raising awareness for Functional Neurological Disorder {FND} & Non Epileptic Attack Disorder {NEAD}

Support Services

S.A.T.E.D.A – Domestic Abuse Counsellor

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We’re delighted to offer another support service to our local residents.

With effect from Thursday, October 5, we will be joined by a counsellor from Swale Action To End Domestic Abuse, now branching out into Medway.

Domestic abuse is more than just physical abuse – if you are in fear, not able to control your finances or stopped from seeing your friends, this could be abuse.  SATEDA are here to help you on Thursday’s 12pm till 1pm. No appointment needed.

Access on the third Thursday in the month is via the volunteers’ entrance at the back of the Hub in Teasel Road but at all other times, the front space is accessible.

If you require further support or to book an appointment, please visit their website here.